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The best thing parents can do to help prevent drug and
alcohol misuse by their children is to get involved before a problem
begins. Starting when your child is age 5 or 6, talk with him or her about how these substances are harmful to kids.1 Talk honestly and openly about all kinds of tobacco, drugs, and alcohol
as well as other things kids may do to cope with stress in their lives. Using any kind of substance is just one way that children try to deal with things that bother them.
Focus on the positive
Explain the dangers and consequences of tobacco, drug, or alcohol use
Talk with your child about the dangers of misusing prescription medicines, such as using ADHD medicines to concentrate better or stay up later to study. Misusing these medicines can cause heart problems and psychological effects such as anxiety, mood swings, paranoia, seeing or hearing things that are not present (hallucinations), and believing things that are not true (delusions). If your child takes these medicines for ADHD, talk with him or her about using them as prescribed and never giving or selling them to other children.
Be aware that some adolescents and teens try to get a rush by
cutting off oxygen to the brain, such as through choking or strangling each
other. Talk to your child about these dangerous behaviors. Explain that they
can result in lifelong problems or even death.
Many adolescents feel pressured to use
alcohol or drugs because some of their friends are using them. Here are some
tips to teach your child on how to deal with peer pressure.
Encourage your child to:
Look for a peer-led prevention program in your area to help
reinforce what you are teaching.
American Cancer Society (2012). Child and teen tobacco use. Available online: http://www.cancer.org/cancer/cancercauses/tobaccocancer/childandteentobaccouse/index.
DiFranza JR, et al. (2007). Symptoms of tobacco
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nicotine dependence in youth-2 study. Archives of Pediatric and Adolescent Medicine, 161(7): 704–710.
American Psychiatric Association (2013). Substance-related and addictive disorders. In Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th ed., pp. 481–589. Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Association.
Other Works Consulted
Kaul P (2012). Adolescent substance abuse. In WW Hay Jr et al., eds., Current Diagnosis and Treatment: Pediatrics, 21st ed., pp. 153–166. New York: McGraw-Hill.
Current as of:
November 18, 2013
John Pope, MD - Pediatrics & Kathleen Romito, MD - Family Medicine
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